Three Things to Expect When You Start Daycare

1. Frustration Or Fear Of Separation: Starting preschool or daycare for the first time is a big transition and It's completely normal for your children to express fear. In this context children sometimes lack the emotional resources to express their feelings; so they cry. When going through this transition children need time to become accustomed to their surroundings. Or realize there is a new routine in place. It will take some time for them to realize that their caregiver will come back for them. at the end of the day. Keep in mind your child's age or emotional development level may also impact the time they need to transition. Children between the ages of seven months to two years old are typically understanding about this transition, but grudgingly. 
2. Parental Stress/ Anxiety:  Leaving your loved one at daycare can conjure up many emotions for parents. Parents often report the feeling of grief, fear or sadness, due to the stress or change in routine. Fear can also be triggered by past experiences of separation.  It's important to acknowledge the discomfort and prepare for the possibility that it may take longer than expected for the transition or discomfort to go away. Consider taking time off work, scheduling me time, visiting/touring the center, or even volunteering (if permitted).
3. Emotional Safety At The Daycare: Because crying is common it is important that your daycare and childcare facility prepares emotional support and comfort. In such places a child can feel loved, supported, heard and safe. Beyond socialization, it is important that children develop neurologically, cognitively and emotionally. Parents are advised to look for preschools where teachers provide emotional support above all else. At a minimum their childcare center and teachers should express love and never a negative label for their child's behavior.

How can we make this transition easier for families?

• Expect things to be bumpy. This is a transition in schedule.
• Let your child nap longer, spend more time cuddling.
• Provide snacks that are high in protein and low in sugar. Slow burn carbs like oatmeal are ideal for energy in the morning.
• Physically expression of love and talk about the change in schedule.
• Establish a check in with the preschool or child care provider.
• Build self-care activities with children to calm their nerves and ultimately strengthen your relationship.